Being Tough

                                                      

According to material science, Toughness is an ability of a material to absorb energy before it breaks or fails. Considering that into our day to day life, let us talk about being tough.

How does a person become tough? May be he\she had gone through lot of pain in his\her life but still they behave in a calm and composed way in their daily life, as if nothing adverse had happened in the past. Some people are seen with a beaming face all the time and with full of energy when they are around us. But do you think that internally they are very calm? Are they smiling really from their heart? Are they really happy for what they have gone through?

 It is very difficult for anyone to forget their past. Can you forget your past? Especially for a person who had gone through severe agony in their life. Can anyone forget about their past even if they are engaged with many works in their daily life and by interacting with so many people?

Hmm😇….. Let us dig it more….

They may be happy on a momentary basis like situations when they are in some conversations with a like-minded person or doing some work which they really like or they are passionate about.

As long as you are happy by being engaged with something, you would feel great, you would feel like nothing is going to stop you. Yes, certainly, if you are tough, means if you have the ability to absorb your past and move on with the present, you will be happy for every small thing.

I mentioned as ability to absorb past, because I always feel like, the painful past we had gone through in our lives is the richest form of energy which we always possess in our-self. So, the more you absorb your past into yourself, the tougher you become. People around us often say that digging past is not good, but when we realize that we had overcome that painful past, internally it makes you feel great, it makes you realize that you can overcome any upcoming hiccups in your life. Somewhere from the bottom of our heart, we would feel that we are stronger by each and every day.

I request not to consider a tough person as a person with some bad quality. They may be of slightly introvert kind in some cases, but just imagine having a stable and understandable person around you; it would make the environment around you a pleasant place to live with. Tough persons would always have a noted ability with resistance to fail or break, and this resistance power comes from their past.