Random Thoughts

  It has become common for people to use filthy language, be it because of watching Hollywood movies, where using cuss words is quite common (at least in movies). Now–a- days, it has become natural in Indian movies and web series off late. Indian web series has a special mentioning, without cussing words; you can’t find a show now. The moviemakers say that “we use that language to show the story in a realistic way” This is how they justify.😏😠😞 It is irrelevant to the source; using informal language has become common. Even females are adopting that language in modern cities. Unfortunately, cussing words are clubbed in every language. Earlier, there were people who advise us when we try to learn some language as, “learn wrong words first”. It used to be the suggestion in olden days, as a precaution for not using. Now the situation has been reversed, you should know to demonstrate your anger or frustration on someone. Using filthy language and cursing with cussing, words has be

 👀 “Please, help me” It is very often that, someone or the other would approach you for some kind of help. Do you really help them? By considering a moderate man who is having all the basic amenities in his life, generally does his part in resolving the problems of his known acquaintances, family & friends. Let us consider an example: Consider a 40-year-old man, say “X”. When “X” is at his workplace, if some of his colleagues, say “A”, asks for help, he does whatever is needed. If “X” is busy, he would at least enquire about the issue and does his bit in either guiding him or assigning some of his team member in resolving the issue, because “A” is his close friend at work and “A” also helps him as and when needed. Now say “B”, another colleague of “X”, who is very less interactive with him, when approaches him for help, he pretends to be busy and says sorry 😳 as he couldn’t help him. Now say “C”, another colleague who usually never asks help to anyone. But always he

Rakshabandhan is a word which reminds us about the bonding between sisters and brothers. In the present situation or even in the past, we observe that woman are being belittled everywhere, not because of their ability or capability; it is just because they don’t repel back harshly to even someone who is harsh. Let us leave about the topic of gender inequality; rather I wish to stress about the emphasis on Rakhshabandhan. It is understandable to have a special day to celebrate the joy of bonding with our siblings. Then, is it limited to a single day? Or just for few days? Is Rakshabandhan limited to siblings alone? Is it okay to take care of our own sisters and having wrong notions on other woman? Above situations are commonly observed in our society. Let me share my past experience in my school! On Rakshabandhan day, all the students were instructed to assemble and sit opposite to each other irrespective of gender. So, we are supposed to sit opposite to our schoolma

      Is it necessary to take revenge? 🔪  What do you achieve by taking revenge on someone? Did you ever question in this way? You may feel like you gained some kind of happiness by taking revenge. Here, your plan of revenge can most likely be accomplished by making the other person feel the pain which you have gone through it earlier. If you retrospect the process of taking revenge, you may regret for what you have done. Taking revenge is nothing else but hurting someone because you have faced some issues in the past. The pleasure of accomplishing revenge may not last long. You may have some reasons to justify for taking revenge. Other than taking revenge, the only option left for you is to “let it go” kind of approach. Also, I agree that for every situation forgiving is not the solution. Certain issues may need proper punishment for the traitors. There are some punishments which can be given legally if the pain caused to you is something illegal and if you have proofs. In simp